April 21, 2013 § Leave a Comment
We did it! Well, with a lot of help, we did it! Juliet’s formerly lilac nursery is now officially green! A big thank you to J’s parents for enduring the paint fumes with us and making it so that we were done in about three hours. It was awesome.
Oh yeah, we put the crib together, too!
More of the room…
Things are getting real!
April 18, 2013 § Leave a Comment
Unless my fear is realized and Juliet’s born on I-45, we’re giving birth at Nativiti Birth Center in the aforementioned The Woodlands, TX. I’ve had all of my prenatal care through the Certified Nurse Midwives there.
Why choose this form of care? Three years ago I met up with one of my good friends in Dallas at La Madeline for dessert. We were just catching up, but somehow the topic of birth came up. I think I had randomly watched The Business of Being Born on Netflix because it was streaming or something. She shared the birth story of her daughter. It had been a pretty traumatic event- so much so that she refused to give birth in a hospital for her next kid. Her experience got her to start researching birth in the US in an effort to figure out what had gone so wrong, and she basically realized that her story was not an anomaly. It was shared by lots of women in the US, and was now starting to become a topic of serious conversation. My friend’s experience and what she learned got me to start looking into what I took for granted as “normal.”
I didn’t realize that “normal” for American births included:
Let me just say this- I am not a crunchy person. I wasn’t really that bothered when our apartment complex didn’t offer recycling. I also know there’re tons of chemicals we ingest every day that I could avoid if I wanted to, but frankly, make food too delicious to pass up. And while it’s not fun to think about, the fact that our meat products are raised in pretty gross and restrictive environments hasn’t moved me to go vegetarian.
What does make this stand out to me as an issue I care about is the fact that one in three women getting a C-section sounds about right when I think about the birth stories of my girlfriends. I also hate inefficiency, and the amount of monetary waste our health care system goes through because of the over-medicalization of birth is out of control. Just because insurance pays for it doesn’t mean it’s free. Maybe it’s the capitalist in me that’s most bothered.
I’m very grateful that we have the option of medicalized births, when necessary. It’s easy for me to criticize our system when I’m not giving birth on the prairie in the 1800′s. I do think, however, that the pendulum can swing too far to one side, and when it does, it’s our responsibility to get it back to the appropriate middle.
All of this information led J and I to decide that when we had kids, we’d look into all of our options and weigh them to see what made the most sense for us. As we’re a low-risk pregnancy, we decided a 6% chance of C-section at a birth center was way more palatable than the 25-33% chance we’d have in the Houston-area hospitals when the mother/baby outcome is the same if not better. If I need medical intervention we can get it quickly at the hospital down the street and our CNM’s can pretty much do everything a doctor can do, except of course perform surgery. We’ve loved the care we’ve received so far and are convinced this was the right move for us. Plus I get a Jacuzzi tub in my birthing room. Win.
April 13, 2013 § Leave a Comment
February 3, 2012 § Leave a Comment
One of our marriage jokes is that I only have a hobby for about a month before I lose interest. I tried knitting- lost interest after a month. I will occassionally read, but inevitably get bored with it. I was playing the Sims for about a week before I gave up. I got on Pinterest for two days and haven’t been back. So it’s no surprise that I would blog for a couple months and then stop. But then I look back and am shocked at everything that’s happened between now and my last post. It’s a shame. I’m gonna try to catch this thing up to speed.
First update: The cats are still alive and well! Murphy is bigger, Kinsler is more like a cat than a kitten. They’re both still a lot of fun! Murphy has learned an awesome new move where she bats down toys we throw in the air. The girl jumps crazy high. I’ll have to post some action shots later.
August 31, 2011 § 2 Comments
Today was like any other day up at the school. Bills to pay, applicants to call, checks to be signed. But when I turned and glanced out our office window, I thought I could see smoke. I went over to the window and checked.
Yup that’s smoke! There have been a lot of fires recently- I think we’re experiencing spontaneous combustion. But wait… what’s that in the street…
There’s a freaking horse tied to the stop sign! What’s going on??? Oh… wait… the situation’s under control. Some guy’s coming to get him.
Lest you be confused, we are one minute away from downtown Houston. Maybe less. I’m SO GLAD I took pics because a few seconds after I put my phone down, I turned around and Mr. Ed was gone.
August 20, 2011 § Leave a Comment
You may not know this, but J is one of those guys who will bring me flowers for no reason, and I totally love that. He got me flowers just because I came back from a weekend trip to Nebraska! I was really excited and put them in one of my vases. As soon as I had them arranged the way I wanted them and out on the table, up jump Kinsler and Murphy, naturally.
This is an action shot of Murphy eating my flowers. Kinsler was content to just sniff. Murphy has a slightly more sinister bent to her nature. Basically, the flowers couldn’t last on the table, so I put them up on the kitchen counter. This is what I found when I came home…
I’m pretty sure Murphy isn’t vitamin deficient, as you can see in the picture her bag of highly nutritious kitten food is in plain sight. It did make me feel better knowing that she was probably shocked and scared when the vase came crashing down. Is that bad?
August 15, 2011 § 1 Comment
J and I were up at Yellowstone every day last week. I was getting all of our HR documents put together and inventoried, tracking staff down and getting forms filled out, and J was doing in-service and putting final touches on his room.
J is the middle school social studies teacher, so his classroom encompasses 6th Grade World Geography, 7th Grade Texas History, and 8th Grade US History.
J’s challenged all of his students to memorize the US presidents’ full names, regardless of their grade or class. We’ll reward the first one (or two?) who are successful with a (steak?) dinner. As you can see the fine print is not finished being written.
A few key words J’s hoping will stick.
And I didn’t want to leave you without the joys of the finance department! My desk actually looked a lot worse than this most of last week, but it’s starting to turn a corner. I’m hoping it’ll be clear by Friday. No promises.